James 1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, AND IT WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU. Coping mechanisimim number one.....ASK GOD!! A definition of wisdom is the spiritual ability to evaluate life through God's eyes.....His filters! Read the Word, pray, and surround yourself with people who will build a solid faith within you. LOOK UP! Pray request: